Why Organisations Repeat Their Mistakes
Dr. Farhad Mehraban
9/10/20264 min read


Why Organisations Repeat Their Mistakes
In years of consulting work, I have sat in enough performance review meetings to notice something that never makes it into the final report.
Everyone in the room knows exactly what went wrong. The failed decision, the ignored warning, the conversation that never happened. The analysis is usually sharp. Then somewhere mid-discussion, something changes. Language gets vaguer. Responsibility spreads thin. A human explanation gives way to a structural one. Someone proposes a new process. The meeting closes with an action plan.
A year later, the same problem comes back in different clothes.
I watched this long enough to stop placing my analytical focus on strategy. A different question started mattering more: what is this organisation protecting itself from seeing?
What does the standard model of organisational failure get wrong?
The usual picture is rational: bad decision, skill gap, misaligned structure, insufficient data, weak leadership. The fix follows logically. Better processes, more capability, a restructured team, a new leader.
All of this is sometimes accurate. None of it explains why the same organisation, with better processes, a rebuilt team, and more data, lands in a recognisably similar place in the short term.
The rational model can only conclude the fix was not deep enough. More improvement needed. Deeper restructuring required. A better leader this time.
I find this less and less persuasive. What makes more sense to me is that the organisation is not failing to solve a problem. It is maintaining a defensive system that keeps it from contact with an uncomfortable reality.
Why organisational defensive systems?
I developed this framework gradually, through a pattern of systematic longitudinal observation: every organisation stuck in chronic difficulty had something beneath its stated problems that its senior team was reluctant to look at directly. Not from ignorance, and not from lack of information. Because what was there to be seen felt genuinely threatening: to the organisation's picture of itself, to the standing of those who held power, to the narrative that had been used to justify past decisions.
Around that avoided reality, a system formed. Not by design, not through any conscious plan, but organically, the way scar tissue closes around a wound. Structures that made the difficult thing harder to see. Behaviours that redirected attention each time something came too close. Narratives, often sophisticated ones, that explained the symptoms without ever reaching the cause.
I named this an Organisational Defensive System, and identified three recurring elements.
What are the elements?
The first is the avoided reality: what the organisation is not looking at. It is the organisational equivalent of what I call the feeling pole in the therapy room. Usually it is not hidden. It is visible in every conversation, present in every metric, and systematically unnamed.
A business model that no longer works but whose obsolescence nobody will confirm. A founder whose approach has become damaging but whose past contribution makes challenge feel impossible. A culture of conflict avoidance so entrenched that significant disagreements never surface, because the system has learned to absorb them before they become visible.
The second is the anticipated threat. This is the anxiety pole, rarely stated, but fully present in the texture of resistance: the way certain conversations close, the topics that produce discomfort, what happens to people who speak too plainly. Naming the real problem is experienced, beneath awareness, as something that would bring the organisation down, humiliate its leadership, invalidate its history. The defensive system exists to prevent that moment from arriving.
The third is the defence pattern itself: the structures, behaviours and narratives that make avoidance possible. These are what organisations call their culture, their processes, their norms, their strategy. They are all of those things. They are also, at the same time, the mechanisms that keep the first two elements in place.
Why does conventional consulting not have an answer for this?
Most engagements are contracted at the level of the defence. The organisation presents a problem: underperformance, a cultural issue, a strategic gap, a leadership challenge. The consultant analyses the defence and recommends improvements. Better process. Cleaner accountability. A culture change programme. A new strategic framework.
This is not wrong. The defences are real, and their functioning can improve. But improving a defensive system does not end it. If the avoided reality stays avoided, the system reconstitutes itself around the new processes, inside the new framework, beneath the culture programme.
What produces change is different. Not better symptom analysis. Contact with what the symptoms have been protecting.
Where does change actually happen?
On this basis, the work begins differently. Not from the presenting problem, but from the question underneath it: what is this organisation not looking at, and what does it fear would follow if it did?
This requires a particular kind of access, not just to data and strategy documents but to what actually happens in organisational corridors. Where does attention go when something challenging approaches? Which topics produce a specific quality of avoidance? Who carries the system's anxiety, and how does it show up?
When the avoided reality becomes nameable, first for the leadership and then more broadly, something changes at the root. Not quickly, and not without difficulty. The defensive system does not yield easily. But instead of working around a set of symptoms, it becomes possible to face the actual problem.
The same movement appears in the therapy room. Different scale, similar structure. The same difficulty of looking at what is there, and the same stillness that comes when it finally becomes possible.
Dr. Farhad H. Mehraban
Psychotherapist | Organisational Psychologist | Management Consultant
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